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Lesson 2

Al-Mu’min: Now I Have Someone to Rely On

“Those who believe and do not taint their faith with wrongdoing—it is they who will have security, and it is they who are rightly guided.”
Al-An‘am, 82

Faith is not merely believing that Allah exists.

Faith is trusting Allah.

A person may believe, yet still try to keep everything under their own control. They may think they can manage the future, other people and the final outcome. When control slips from their hands, their heart becomes constricted.

This constriction often arises not from the magnitude of events, but from taking upon oneself a burden that no human being can carry.

Allah has not entrusted us with the task of controlling every outcome.

The Heart’s Anxiety for Control

What will happen in the future?

Who will remain?

What will be lost?

Will the outcome I am waiting for come to pass?

What a person fears most is uncertainty.

The anxiety for control says to the heart:

“If I let go of control, everything will fall apart.”

But faith says something else:

“It is not in my hands, but it is in His.”

Nothing is beyond His control.

Every loss, every joy and every moment exists within Allah’s knowledge and permission.

This is the first peace that faith gives to the heart: a person understands that they no longer have to carry the whole of life upon their own shoulders.

Now I Have Someone to Rely On

Faith and security spring from the same root.

When faith settles in the heart, a sentence arises within:

“Now I have someone to rely on.”

This sentence does not mean that every difficulty has come to an end.

Loss still exists.

Waiting still exists.

The disloyalty of people still exists.

The uncertainty of life still exists.

But fear no longer remains in the same place.

Because a person no longer feels alone, the things that happen to them no longer leave them as abandoned as they once did.

“Allah is with me” becomes more than a sentence of consolation. It becomes an awareness that surrounds every breath of the heart:

“I am not walking alone.”

“There is One who knows my words, my heart and my silence.”

Faith Does Not Eliminate Fear

Faith does not eliminate fear; it changes its direction.

A person no longer fears only loss, the harm that others may cause, or what may happen in the future.

Their deepest fear becomes being distant from Allah.

This fear does not scatter a person; it gathers them. It does not drive them away from what they fear, but draws them nearer to their Lord.

A person may ask themselves:

“What am I most afraid of losing?”

My possessions?

My reputation?

The support of others?

Control?

Or my nearness to Allah?

What the heart is attached to can be recognised by the direction of its fear.

Patience Is Trust Sustained

“Surely Allah is with those who are patient.”
Al-Baqarah, 153

Trust may last only for a moment.

A person may find peace while praying. But when the waiting grows long, preserving that same trust becomes more difficult.

Patience is trust made enduring.

Patience is not merely waiting.

Patience is holding on to the peace that entered the heart at the first moment of faith:

“I will not lose this peace.”

The outcome may be delayed.

People may change.

Conditions may become more difficult.

But patience means that the heart does not change its direction.

Faith is a seed. It is watered with remembrance and patience, and bears fruit through gratitude. Within the heart, it grows into a tree of peace.

When the storm comes, the branches of the tree may sway, but its roots are not torn from the ground.

Four States, Four Keys

There are four states that constrict the heart:

Anxiety, despair, pride and excessive reliance on causes.

When these states are recognised, the heart can find its direction again through the names of Allah.

In anxiety:

“O Al-Wakīl, I entrust my affairs to You.”

In despair:

“O Al-Rahīm, I will not lose hope in Your mercy.”

In pride:

“O Al-Kabīr, greatness belongs to You alone.”

In excessive reliance on causes:

“O Al-Samad, everything is from You.”

These are not merely words to be repeated.

Each one is a key that turns the heart back towards Allah at the moment it becomes attached to the wrong place.

The Heart Key of This Lesson

Faith does not mean believing that nothing will ever happen to you.

It means trusting that nothing which happens to you is independent of Allah’s knowledge, power and wisdom.

Peace does not mean that the outcome will always be as you desire.

Peace is knowing that, whatever the outcome may be, you are not alone.

“It is not in my hands, but it is in His.”

Prayer

O Allah,
remove from my heart the burden of control that I cannot carry.

Teach me to fulfil my duty
and to leave the outcome to You.

When I fear losing something, do not let me lose You.
Grant me the ability to preserve my trust while I wait
and to see Your power behind all causes.

Give my heart a faith that can say:
“Now I have someone to rely on.”